Yes. Completely. Tatum stores everything only on your device. There is no server, no cloud, and no account required. Nothing you log ever leaves your phone. The only person who can see your Tatum data is you.
No. Tatum cannot see your entries. There is no account connected to you, no data transmitted to any server, and no way for the developer or anyone else to access what you have logged. Your intimate life stays yours.
Tatum is built specifically to prevent automatic cloud backup of your private data. Your entries are stored using secure on-device storage and are not included in standard iCloud or Google Drive backups. Your data stays on your phone.
Every time you open Tatum after the initial setup, you are shown a lock screen that requires Face ID, Touch ID, or your personal passcode to get in. Nobody who picks up your phone can access your entries without your biometric or code.
If you delete Tatum from your phone, your data is deleted with it. Since everything is stored only on your device and not in the cloud, there is no backup to recover from. Before deleting, you will have the option to export your data if you want to keep a personal record.
Yes. Setting up your security is the first thing you do when you open Tatum. You can choose Face ID, Touch ID, or a personal passcode. This lock screen appears every time you open the app so your entries are always protected.
Tatum is designed to be discreet. The app icon is a simple bloom mark that does not announce what the app is. The lock screen activates every time the app is opened, so even if someone sees the app icon and taps it, they cannot get inside without your Face ID or passcode.
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Getting Started
No. Tatum requires no account, no email address, and no registration of any kind. You open the app, set up your security and preferences, and you are ready to go. Nothing connects you to your data except your own device.
During onboarding you will be prompted to create your first partner profile. You give the partner an initial or a name — whatever feels most private to you — and the app creates a profile for them. You can add more partners at any time from your Profile screen.
Yes. Tatum is built for your real life, which may include one partner or several. You can create as many partner profiles as you need and switch between them when logging. Each partner has their own analytics so you can see patterns separately.
Yes. During onboarding you set up your own activity tags — the shorthand you use to log what happened. Tatum includes suggested emojis and initials as a starting point, but you can customize them completely to match your own private language. Nobody else will ever see or understand your shorthand.
Yes. When you log a session you can change the date to any past date you choose. So if you forgot to log something last Tuesday, you can go back and add it. Your calendar will reflect the accurate date.
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Using Tatum Day To Day
Log whenever something happens that you want to remember. There is no required frequency. Some weeks will have several entries and some weeks will have none — both are completely normal. The value of Tatum comes from looking back over time, not from hitting a daily target.
Anything intimate that matters to you. That could be intercourse, oral, kissing, a solo moment, a cuddle that felt meaningful, or a first I love you. Tatum is yours to define. If it felt like something, it is worth logging.
Completely normal. Life is busy. There will be quiet stretches. Tatum is not here to judge your frequency — it is here to show you the truth of your pattern over a longer period of time. A quiet two weeks followed by a connected week is still a story worth seeing.
Yes. Tatum includes solo as an activity tag. You can log solo moments, your own desire, your own energy — with or without a partner. Tatum belongs to you and your intimate life, however that looks.
Your Home screen shows your insights dashboard with an overview of your recent activity, trends over different time ranges, and a breakdown by partner. You can switch between weekly, monthly, and longer views to see your patterns emerge over time.
The Calendar screen is your default home screen. It shows a monthly view with your logged sessions marked on each date. Tap any date to see the details of what you logged that day. This is where you see your proof — your actual history laid out in your own calendar.
Yes. Every logged session has an optional notes field where you can write anything you want to remember about that moment. Only you ever see these notes. They are stored securely on your device alongside the rest of your entry.
You can tap any entry in your calendar to view it and then edit or delete it. Your data is always yours to manage.
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The Emotional Side
Tatum was built specifically to counter shame, not create it. A slow month is not a failing — it is information. Life has seasons. When you see a quieter month in your calendar alongside busier ones, you see your real life in full context, not a single moment taken out of it. That perspective is what changes how you feel about yourself.There is no right number in Tatum. There is only your number. And your number is enough.
Then you have something honest to look at. Tatum is not about meeting a standard — it is about seeing your truth clearly. Some women discover they are showing up far more than they realized. Others discover patterns that feel important to them. Whatever you see, it is yours and it is real, and that is more useful than the story in your head.
No. There is no medically defined normal frequency and Tatum does not suggest one. What matters is how you feel about your own intimate life — not how it compares to anyone else. Tatum shows you your pattern over time so you can make your own informed assessment.
Yes, and it usually fades quickly. The embarrassment you feel in the first few days of logging is the same shame that Tatum was built to dissolve. Most women find that within the first week or two, the act of logging starts to feel empowering rather than uncomfortable. You are claiming your story. That takes a little practice.
That is entirely your choice to navigate. You have no obligation to share what Tatum is or what you log in it. If you choose to, you can describe it as a private health and wellness tracker, which is exactly what it is. The lock screen means they will never see inside it without your permission.
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Technical Questions
Tatum is a one-time purchase of $24.99. That single payment gives you full and permanent access to every feature in the app — no subscription, no recurring fees, no hidden charges. Pay once and Tatum is yours forever.
No. Tatum is a single one-time purchase of $24.99 with no subscription and no free tier. Every feature is included. You will never be asked to upgrade or pay again.
Yes. Tatum is available on iOS in the App Store and on Android in Google Play. It is built for both platforms and works the same way on each.
Yes. Because Tatum stores everything on your device and does not require a server connection, it works fully offline. You can log, view your calendar, and see your stats with no internet connection at all.
Tatum includes a data export feature so you can save your data before switching devices. Export your data from the Settings screen before making the change and keep it as your personal record.
No. Tatum does not send push notifications. This is an intentional privacy decision — a notification appearing on your lock screen could expose the app to someone nearby. Tatum is completely silent on your device.
Because your email address would connect your identity to your intimate data, and that is the opposite of what Tatum stands for. No email means no account, no breach risk, and no way to link you to what you log. Your privacy is the product.
Yes. You can export your full history as a private file that you keep for yourself. This is useful if you want to switch phones, share something with a healthcare provider, or simply keep your own personal record.
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Is Tatum For Me?
No. Tatum is for any woman who wants to understand and honor her own intimate life. That includes women in long-term relationships, women who are dating casually, women with multiple partners, and women who are single and want to track their own solo patterns and desires. Your intimate life is yours regardless of who else is or is not in it.
No. Tatum is built for any woman, regardless of who she is intimate with. Partner profiles use initials and emojis rather than gendered labels, so the app works naturally for any relationship configuration.
Especially for you. New moms are one of the women Tatum was most specifically built for. The postpartum season is one of the most common times women are made to feel inadequate in their intimate lives, often when they are giving everything they have. Tatum gives you a mirror for that season so you can see what you are actually offering, even when it feels like nothing.
Completely. Tatum gives women in the dating world something nobody has built for them before — a private, judgment-free record of their intimate life on their own terms. No accounts, no one else sees it, and no commentary on your choices. Your intimate life is yours. Tatum is where you keep the receipts.
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